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Originally posted by endisnighe
Right now, I vow to try not to label others and I also vow to think outside that box. It is a scary proposition, I know, when I started here I thought there was no damn way I have liberal leanings. I was wrong, and thanks to a couple people here, I was able to see outside my box and it was not so scary.
They use it for divide, they use it to control, they use it to define and they use it to conquer.
Now; let’s talk about that BOX.
You have been placed in a box your whole lives. When you were in school they separated you into different boxes and you put yourself into boxes(clichés). You were trained not to want to get out of your box. The box keeps you safe, it keeps you warm, and it keeps you sane. People are afraid to get out of their boxes now, they do not even want to know they are in a box or that the box exists.
Originally posted by endisnighe
I have experienced the same but in the other "direction". I see that my previous ideas are not always correct when put into action and I still some of my ideas as good.
What I finally see is much of this is a matter of perception of control, what may give you more control may in fact infringe on your control in some other way, in some other unforeseen manner.
The unfortunate thing is this realization does not create better answers, only better questions.
I am glad to have met so many people with contrary views, it has expanded my mind
and distilled my values... Thanks OP
Could it be possible that, instead of not wanting to get out of the box, many people don't ever know that there IS a box? You can't "choose" to get out, or stay in, if you've never heard of the possibility that there is something "other" than where you are... It's like, not asking questions about something because there's nothing to question? If it's not in your reality, how would you know until it's pointed out? or Experience? Only then can one begin to understand that there may be something else to look at and to question... Am I making sense?
People are afraid to get out of their boxes now, they do not even want to know they are in a box or that the box exists.
I know, when I started here I thought there was no damn way I have liberal leanings. I was wrong, and thanks to a couple people here, I was able to see outside my box and it was not so scary.
The unfortunate thing is this realization does not create better answers, only better questions.
I am glad to have met so many people with contrary views, it has expanded my mind and distilled my values... Thanks OP