You tell me why unchild humans, should care about your children?

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You truly don't like children for some reason. You do know that life continues on this planet because people have children, and raise them safely, but you don't want to be involved yet. Fair enough - don't. How many people actually expect you to take care of their children!??

I sure as HELL wouldn't let you anywhere near my child until you grow up a little more.

I am happy not to be responsible near children, no I don't want to be involved and i have given up on 'trying' or been bothered about having children and therefore i am aganist those that have the pleasure in having children rather than people like myself, I refuse and do refuse to look after other peoples children.

reply to post by nahsik


i would rather die a lonely death than relay on humanity

Were you more idealistic previously? Earlier in the year, my domestic partner and I had to deal with a miscarriage. We definitely understand your current view of the poor conduct of parents and children, but I hope that you will return to desiring children. Raise them to understand what you see and they will not manifest as much of our animal nature as is common in the world.

Idealism will be Realism when Ignorance is tended to.

[edit on 10/23/2009 by Dasher]

yes i was idealistic and wanted children and feel disgusted in parents and children of today and why people such as me and yourself dasher suffer while they enjoy having a child and thinking they are better than us there is a certain arrogance about them.

Originally posted by gazerstar
I am greatly offended by this and not just because I have two children of my own. OP, you should care about other people's children because those children are people just like you. Turning our backs on children is turning our backs on humanity and the future of humanity. I'm sorry that you feel the way that you do regarding children, but I'm sure that if you had children of your own and experienced the deep connection, blessing, pride, and realization of the miracle of just how fragile and precious that life is that you would feel differently. At least, I hope that you would.

If you are going to have a problem with people, have a problem with the adult parents. While it is true that there are parents who have no business breeding and passing their maladjustments down to children, there are also children who overcome and break the cycle of such learned behavior. I am one of those children, and I'm very proud of myself for having the strength to overcome such unbearable odds. I comfort myself in thinking that maybe that was the reason for my unfortunate childhood circumstances in the first place. If reincarnation is a reality, maybe I brought myself here in this time to fix the broken chain in my family tree. Of course, I can't know that for sure, but I take comfort in the fact that at least I'm trying to live honorably and passing stability, goodness, and positive values down to my children in the hopes that they turn out to be good people and good parents to their children (my descendants).

On that same token, those parents you judge were probably raised dysfunctionally themselves and are, unfortunately, passing that dysfunction down. Look at it this way, since children bother you so much, have you thought that maybe they're on your mind for a reason? It's entirely possible that your job this go around in your own life cycle is to be a mentor to a child who needs it. Please, for your own sake and the sake of humanity as a whole, help a child who you think needs it. You may be that child's only hope, and that may be your sole purpose for being here in the first place.


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i would adopt a child at a certain age and i would make sure it was not hurt of course i would, i may even adopt in the future but it stil is not my own child is it?
Many parents and children dysfunctional so should be treated accordingly, like i said, i don't blame the children, they are on my mind for a reason and so it parents because i want one and because i feel i deserve it and there for i am going aganist them do that in the hope i get one, like they say if you dont think about it, you get what you desire no?

Originally posted by mopusvindictus
Poet

Your post fills me with Joy because obviously you are a loveless person and by nature you will eliminate that trait from the gene pool by being unable to love and never reproducing.

That being the DEFINITE result of your belief system why even bother to ask questions about it? It's not like it matters when you pass all that you are will vanish forever.

I am have the most honorable, loving, caring heart you will ever come across, but i would make sure they wouldn't be like the bitter and arrogant people we see in the world today

[edit on 24-10-2009 by deathpoet69]

LOL. yes, correct. i wonder why the bad ones are given children?

Mod Edit: Removed the quotation of an actioned post.

[edit on 10/24/2009 by seagull]

Originally posted by smurfy
reply to post by Dasher

 

Are there not animals other than humans with beautiful souls, I think there are, and if God does not take this into his account then he does not know what he created.

i would rather be eaten by a shark or by a croc than to die in the presence of a human being, think about that.

because they are human. humans should care about the well being of our race, child or not.

Okay, so you dont like children. and I dont like you for posting a stupid ass comment like that. where does that leave us?

Originally posted by Lexxica
because they are human. humans should care about the well being of our race, child or not.

humans don't so don't pretend they do

reply to post by deathpoet69

i would rather die a lonely death than relay on humanity

Try it some time.... it ain't all it's cracked up to be. I'm halfway there, and it just plain sucks.

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i would rather be eaten by a shark or by a croc than to die in the presence of a human being, think about that.

Hear hear. The human race is a joke as it stands now. That one fool I put on ignore is an example of how people are nowadays- stupid, self centered, ignorant....

Oh, and just FYI... I use the bus because I was told by my chiropractor to walk an hour a day, and since there's a bus station an hour's walk from my house, I jump on, ride and take care of other business, ride back to the stop, and walk home. I'm sorry I am not rich and cant afford to drive a few blocks, getting fat and stupid.

I just have had a gutful of some of the people who post on here....

Compared to most adults, kids rule. If you don't like children then you might have some real issues.

I have noticed that a lot of people who are very childish inside (emotionally) feel somehow threatened by kids.

I don't understand why this has been going on for six pages. Seriously. So the guy hates most children and blames their parents. Personally, I think he has a lot of deep-seated issues that need to be dealt with, but that's truly his problem; if he really feels this way, how does it really affect anyone else? It's his choice to spout what I and a lot of other people here consider to be drivel.

For one, I don't have any children - not entirely sure I ever will for a myriad of reasons. However I do have several friends with children and they're all beautiful, well-behaved little ones that I love to death (one in particular begins every cute little four year-old conversation with "Excuse me please"). Not all children are the spawn of Satan and there's nothing I wouldn't do for these kids. As long as there are people like me out there, why do we care if this individual wants to be the crotchety old guy at the end of the block?

*snip*

Mod Edit: Attack the issue, not the poster.

[edit on 24-10-2009 by Legion2112]

[edit on 10/24/2009 by seagull]

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parents are alot more childish

Originally posted by wylekat
reply to post by deathpoet69

 

i would rather be eaten by a shark or by a croc than to die in the presence of a human being, think about that.

Hear hear. The human race is a joke as it stands now. That one fool I put on ignore is an example of how people are nowadays- stupid, self centered, ignorant....

Oh, and just FYI... I use the bus because I was told by my chiropractor to walk an hour a day, and since there's a bus station an hour's walk from my house, I jump on, ride and take care of other business, ride back to the stop, and walk home. I'm sorry I am not rich and cant afford to drive a few blocks, getting fat and stupid.

I just have had a gutful of some of the people who post on here....

You chose to go on a bus, it doesn't matter if you don't have enough money, you parents should control YOUR children, what happens or matters to the other people mean a lot if you can't control your kids. If you cant control them, you should have them taken off you, the human race is a joke, it is self centered and stupid and very ignorant; it shows and piles out the disgust and bitterness in parents and those who love children, who are even on a site that flourish in marketing campaigns, we are here to tell you that in our opinion people like yourselves are not worth the poo on our shoes.

You are the people who believe they have had their life's ruined by their children and pretend that its the best thing in slice bread, you are the people who will be spending their money away to your children and giving to the NWO, you are the people who will constantly looking over your back in case your children are taken off you either by social services or a peadophile, you are the responsibility of your children growing up to be murderers, selfish, bitter, twisted or the leader of the NWO, you are to blame if your child becomes a terrorist, you are the responsibility if your child brings trouble to your door, you are responsible if they make £800 bill on your phone, YOU are to blame, and you won't admit to yourselves, YOU are the failure this society.

We are the ones who are FORTUNATE, we are the ones who can live a peaceful life's and that is why YOU are jealous of good hearten loving couples or single or lonely individuals.
No, I don't support the continuation of the human race and I encourage the NWO if there is one to depopulate this planet whatever means that maybe.

[edit on 24-10-2009 by deathpoet69]

[edit on 24-10-2009 by deathpoet69]

It's posts like this that really make me wonder about the mentality of some of the posters on ATS.

So you despise children. Nobody is going to convince you otherwise. You've suffered somewhere along the way and you've decided to become antisocial. Good for the rest of us - please stay locked away in solitary until you are eaten by a croc or a shark.

Children are humanity at its purest form. Unjaded, unhindered by prejudice, unencumbered by political ideals, and completely free in thought and action. This is why it is thought that children have an easier time seeing spirits - they have not learned "not-to", if you know what I mean. They don't see skin color, they don't care if you're rich or poor, they don't have any ulterior motives - they just want to live, learn and be happy.

Of course, parenting skills (rather, the lack therein) and the actions of the parents influence the children in how they act and the people that they will become, but is that the child's fault?

Hardly... and to take such a stance on the child shows what a short-sighted and shallow person you are.

But you know what? My 4 year old would still want to give you a hug.

I'd want to punch you in the face.

[edit on 24-10-2009 by shrike071]

Okay I believe the only way to end this argument is if you give hormone that allows kids to grow up fast to up to teens