reply to post by Alexander_Supertramp
I think i figured out why they waited so long to contact you about this. They wanted to make sure that you didn't have ample time to seek advise, and
would just agree to their terms because you were scared and wanted to be able to attend school when it starts back up. They're using scare tactics
which says a lot about them.
I went back to school after my sons were grown and did it on a scholarship, so i can understand your fear of losing your scholarship. First look over
your scholarship and see under what circumstances it can be taken away. It probably has no stipulations about illegal downloading, however it may have
stipulations about being on acedemic probation, monitoring or suspension.
My suggestion is the same as before, don't even answer the email until you've gotten some kind of advise, preferably legal. Don't let them rush you
with their scare tactics, although it may not be much, you do still have a little time left. Tomorrow's monday, most places have some kind of legal
aide department look in your local phone book and locate one in your area, and then call them and see if you can make an appointment to go and see
them to obtain legal advise.
You said school starts in 18, well 17 days now, so i would give yourself this whole week to obtain advise and calmly decide what you're going to do.
You can reasonably wait until next monday to give them an answer and still have ample time to settle this before the start of classes. Do NOT allow
them to use their scare tactics to bully you into a premature decision based on fear. You may stand to lose a lot if this is not handled correctly,
especially if they are hiding an attempt to pursue this legally, you never know who they're going to chose to be the one they use to set an example.
Good that you're listening to the advise about not giving them access to your computer, that's the best advise right now.
I'm sure that it's possible that you ocassionally let some of your friends or roommate use your laptop, which means they may have downloaded some
things. However they will probably hold to the belief that it's your laptop and you are responsible for what is done with it, also i doubt that they
will accept that somebody else downloaded over 900 things on it without your knowledge.
One poster gave you some really good advise take it, talk to your parents about it.
So here's my advise again in a nutshell. You have 17 days left, give yourself until next monday to make your decision calmly, you'll still have
ample time before school starts. Find out under what circumstances you can lose your scholarship. Make every attempt to gain legal advise before doing
anything. Do NOT allow them access to your laptop. No more downloading. Talk to your parents. Good Luck !