posted on Aug, 2 2008 @ 10:54 AM
In the early 70's when I was a teenager, some of my peers smoked marijuana. Some drank. Lots of them had sex with each other. I attended my 30 year
reunion in 2005 and discovered that most of us have grown up to be fairly normal, respectable, taxpaying citizens with jobs and families. As I recall
it, there was nearly as much hype and propaganda about the hippie, druggie, irresponsible and apathetic teenagers who will "never amount to
anything" back then as there is now.
I, however, do see a difference, and it's an important one in my book.
The problem is not the colored hairstyles, or the piercings, or the whole "Goth" thing, or drugs and sex. The problem is attitude.
Today's teenagers don't have any respect for adults, or for authority. They seem to think they are entitled to everything - freedom, material goods,
a nice job, respect, loud music, etc. - without any concern for how their actions affect others, and without taking any responsibility for how their
actions affect others.
If I politely ask a teenager to turn down his loud music in a public place, I'm more likely to get a disrespectful and obscene reply than I am to get
compliance. In the 70's we might have rolled our eyes once the adult's back was turned and let our faces show what we thought of the "old fogey,"
but we would have probably muttered something like "ok, sorry," and turned down the music.
In this topsy-turvy politically correct world where telling the truth is somehow unacceptable if certain people aren't going to like the truth,
people - even the people who make TV shows and movies - are afraid to address the real problems because, even if there wouldn't be public outrage
(all the parents defending their darling can-do-no-wrong children), the advertisers who sell their products to teens would not buy in.
So they make movies about the same tired old themes - drugs and sex - when in fact the real issues that have us old fogies worried about today's
teens are disrespect, rudeness, lack of common courtesy, lack of compassion, inability to take responsibility for their own actions, disdain for any
kind of authority, and a seemingly total lack of understanding that their words and actions should be tempered with an awareness of and concern for
how people around them are affected.
Just my opinion of course, and possibly a little skewed by the fact that I work in a place that serves "troubled" youth.