using the word "gay" as a reference to a minority isnt really accurate is it?
are the homosexuals a different breed of people?
negative, no sir they is not
you can get a black homosexual, or a white homosexual, but i dont think you get a gay coloured homosexual?
now to tackle your argument that homosexuals cannot help it.
your basically saying its genetic.
well theres problems with that because if it was hereditary then why iin almost all the cases, parents are strait?
and if there were a gay gene then, techically it should have died out.
(try and geuss why)
i understand where you are arguing from though:
i asked my friend how he thought about the 'gay gene'
and he explained that he doesnt believe its genetic
however he explained that it does develope at an early age
now its different i every individual case, but for him he said it was a mix of an over smothering mother, and a cold and distant father.
in this case he explained that he grew up craving the attention of his father, and having a negative notion toward the over-attention of women.
as he grew up and hit his teens, these feelings became intergrated into his sexual tendencies.
most homosexuals have had girlfriends, but find the whole eniviroment uncomfortable.
hope that shed some light on it, did for me i geuss