Magic - making someone love you???

Wow alot of advice floating around here. Well for starters if you feel you need to spend lots of money to find and land a lady you are gravely mistaken and probably should look into some counseling because you obviously have self esteem issues. If you feel the need to make someone else love you via a spell, then it is time for you take a moment for introspection and figure out what it is you are lacking that is in your eyes keeping you from being a viable mate and either take means to correct it or figure out what strength you have that can compensate for the weakness. If you feel the need for any kind of spell one to attract a love to you usually will do. But as with all things you have to have faith or it doesnt work.

GoToTheLight- relax you didn't make the guy kill himself, these things happen sometimes. Take your time clear your head and spend some time with your friend I would imagine she will need it. Also just next time you get obsessive over something take a minute and think of better less possibly harmful ways of removing your opponent.

Cowgirlstraitup7- pickup a phone and call this man, your nuts about him and pretty sure he is nuts about you what more are you waiting for? It is very easy to be afraid of ruining a long standing friendship, but this may just be one of those times you have to be willing to let go of something great to get something better. Now if you are to afraid to just come out and say something then drop little hints and not ones you think are obvious, but I have brick in hand and am going to smack you with it ones.

You cannot make someone love you. We have free will, and to use magick to bind someone's free will would bring karma against you.
You can certainly make them desire you MORE, but not love you.

There are ways to 'bind' someone to you......but then if you 'tire' of them, they might not go away willingly. Things could get ugly.

Then there's the bad karma for 'imprisoning' someone against their will.......after all, it would be pretty much like kidnapping someone and tying them up in the attic....

Still interested?


[edit on 1-1-2008 by frayed1]

I'm new here,but after all my testing I realize one thing,that some may not understand or just try and shut it up.....There is no "FREE WILL"..There is only US.....Think about...Yes I read "The secret" and what I found testing around,reseaching is that there's a lot more to it then just a simple ask and recieve.....Now I have no reason to use magic,in fact I don't think it's magic at all...if u can casting a spell on someone with magic,then u use magic all the time...every thought does something and u can test around and u will find I'm right....We humans are really powerful,but at the same time were very weak.If a person is rude to u,then it was because u brought that up,U had thoughts flowing around that caused that.....Now I wanna ask u a question,If u beleive our thoughts can effect the world around us(including people),what is free will then...???Think about I use to think that there will always be people rude to me,even doe 80% of the time people like me,but since 4 months I found that people who didn't like me like me now...One said to me once "I feel something has changed in u and I will start inviting u to other places"....WOW!!!(All I did is think that everyone likes me and that is positve)If we have free will and we get to pick how a person can act towards us(Because before u had thoughts that made people hate u,so u made them hate u and ,so ain't that going towards Free will)......What is Free will..I ask again.....When u wake up and say things like "I'm sexy,hot,cute" You could be effecting other people....


If u focus too hard on what u want it will slowdown and the opposite effect may come,this happens ,because u still have doe thoughts there and,so u go in to a type of withdraw....

U can ether get it over with and focus a lot on it or u can do light focus and see results,but u gotta keep it really light and not over do it....


Now I feel u should not force someone to love u ,but at the sametime there are reasons why it can be done and this is because that is how love is it's just that u are really focusing one person,without letting ur mind set it up for u.


Now Once again can someone truely say there's free will,because If free will is just the all our thoughts effecting eachother and a thought that pops in ur head doesn't have to be ur's ...,then what is free will,because If I'm gaining more out of my life ,but at the same time all the bad things that happen in the past were all set up by me,I focused on things I didn't want and they happen(So in turn doesn't this mean I effected people's free will to make events that would make them hate me or make them hate me them selfs)..........................so I ask again can anyone give me prove that we have Free will......................................................???

To me there is no Free will,there is only US!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Test around for about 2 month and tell If ur thoughts don't effect people and when i mean test treat it like a skill and what's ,so bad about thinking everything will always go ur way(This is the reason why I tested around a lot,because it's good to think positive)....

Peace!!!!!!!

[edit on 1-1-2008 by Blankname101]

Originally posted by Blankname101
Now Once again can someone truely say there's free will,because If free will is just the all our thoughts effecting eachother and a thought that pops in ur head doesn't have to be ur's ...,then what is free will,because If I'm gaining more out of my life ,but at the same time all the bad things that happen in the past were all set up by me,I focused on things I didn't want and they happen(So in turn doesn't this mean I effected people's free will to make events that would make them hate me or make them hate me them selfs)..........................so I ask again can anyone give me prove that we have Free will......................................................???

Here is your proof: you responded to this thread. No one made you do it, no one forced you to do it. Likewise, no one told you or forced you to edit your thread, you could have left it.

Why did you post here? Did some inner voice say "Do it, dooooo it?" Did some unseen spirit grab hold of your hands and type those wors as you cried out, "Noooooo!"?

By your own choices, by your own actions,you clicked on ATS, youclicked on this thread, and youmade this post. By yourself, with no one's involvment other than your own.

Now, what you could have done is asked "if we all have preordained destinies, and if 'God' knows what is in our hearts and what we will do, then how can we have free will?". I'd have more than likely sided with you, and probably have quoted from a different thread which addressed that question... more then likely saying something like "we are but puppets who can see our strings" or something profound like that.

But this thread is about love, stealing one's heart, making potions and such... not about free will.

Advertisers and media consultants have been working for decades to make us fall in love with their products and rob us of free will... be careful out there.

The Soothsayer

What I'm saying is this.....Let's say I get mad and punch someone in the face....now a normal person would think that it's just the person's fault and he would be charged,but what If that was not his own thought(Not that I say he ain't at fault).If and I said If we can think a thought and depending on how much thought is needed to it,then by all means u can make that event happen.U may think this whole thought thing is a joke,but u gotta do ur reaseach and test and u will find that there's a lot of stuff u can do to proof this.

My true point was that I don't like the fact a person would just force someone to fall in love with them,but it doesn't mean we humans don't do it in a simlier way.U have to ask ur self what is the process of love??Sure it's said that it's just when a haibit happening in the brain related to DNA,input,etc....

Anyways I will stop disscussing this and let people try and see with there own eyes what less then 0.8 of the population know....

The Soothsayer I think u should really test it out and then u will understand me ,If not then it's okay.


Peace!!!

[edit on 2-1-2008 by Blankname101]

reply to post by Cowgirlstraitup7

Anyhow, so how about a spell to make men straighten up and act right and find me!

Since the dawn of humanity mages, witches and scholars have worked to find a spell to make men staighten up and have fail I'm afraid.
Only time will allow you to find the right man.

Happy hunting.

Love is Magical!

The spell to get is to give!

No bad in that.

Now if you are looking for dominance and submission games rather than love, well. You might get hurt when it's your turn.

Ah now I see the real question. Can you force love

No.
You can force manipulation!
You can force retaliation!

Let me tell you a little story...

Back in third grade when I was eight, there was this girl, that I wanted to love me, because she had an electric scooter, So I went to the library and found a book on "Magic spells". So I went home and tried it, In turn it gave me more confidence to go and talk to the girl.
I ended up dating this girl for a week, then, her scooter broke and I never spoke to her again, because she was a girl and girls are icky.

Basically, it was all in my head, and after I got her, It turned out I didn't like her...So If you can sift through my garbage and find the deeper meaning...you're welcome?

I would say people use witchcraft in some form or another everyday to persuade someone to notice or fall in love with them. Perfumes, make-up, winking, and flirting or all means to attract someone to you. Maybe you don't cast a verbal spell on them but you use the tools to do it.

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Likewise, as you reap so you shall sow -- beware what you begin by begetting. Better to love yourself -- and open yourself to the love that is looking for you, because it is.

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Hahahaha!

Love the reference to "South Park : Bigger Longer and Uncut", that was classic

Originally posted by MrdDstrbr
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Hahahaha!

Love the reference to "South Park : Bigger Longer and Uncut", that was classic

Did ya?
Well, apparently someone didn't. I thought that was damn insightful too. Must have those Stern fans gunnin' for me.
FRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRUNKIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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no they are infact PHEREMONES dont know the spelling but thats nearly right. you can buy them from some shops to make the opposite, or same sex attracted to you

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I should let you in on some knowledge here about this so called "love magic".

Dont buy into it..And dont go around trying to weave energy you dont have a clue about. Energy that surrounds us can be a good thing. While on the same hand it can be very misleading and negtive..

If you want someone to love you, I suggest taking measures to ensure you find someone you would work well with in a real fashion.. Not becasue you casted a spell.. Beside what is a spell anyway? Many dont have a clue but think they do..

The only thing that works honestly is manifestation.. If you want something picture it being yours.. And really put it to your mind that what you want will come to you.. However all things fall into place with love..
It either happens or it doesnt.. And trying to manipulate something as powerful as love can be a very bad thing..

Stay away from the vodoo!! As any troll will tell you..hehe

I also suggest you work on yourself, presay any type of craft.. Those people that are out there will either love you or they wont.. No type of magical spell could change that.. And even if it could, would you really want to be with someone who was charmed?

I know I wouldnt, and I have said over and over agin.. Playing with energy is a dangerous game.. You are a tool for other energies out there.

There is much to this world we do not understand.. And when one doesnt understand something, its clearly healthy to steer clear of these types of things.. Sure its nice to think about.. But at the end of the day isnt it better to have something you worked for in a real way.. and not having something just becasue you magically waved your hands around and lit a few candles.. Wish in one hand, and crap in the other, see which one fills up faster...

Peace

hey i'm wiccan and yea there are love spells you can try some of the darker one's require mentral blood or semen in the significatnt other's food lighter one's require love herbs..................

I HIGHLY RECOMEND NOT USING SPELLS UNLESS YOU HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH THEM THE REPROCUSSIONS COULD BE SEVERE

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As I said I recommend not doing it at all.
There are too many ways you can end up with a unmitigated disaster even with the best of planning. Free will is not to be messed with lightly and certainly not to make people do things they ordinarily should have every right to control, well as much as one can have control in such situations.

Such things go WAY beyond simple manipulation (which has its own problems) and should not be messed with if you want to claim any sort of goodness.

[edit on 18-2-2008 by WraothAscendant]

Sorry I haven't posted in AGES.

everyone's been really helpful and i thank you all for posting

i definitely won't be trying any kind of magical manipulation of people. As was said before, I wouldn't like it done to myself.

it seems that some people were not meant to be together and that's the way the world works. a bit of a depressing note to end on but what the hell

thanks again!