Magic - making someone love you???

Originally posted by jedimiller
But see, prostitution is illegal friends!!!.

Its not illegal everywhere, Nevada, Sweden, Germany, and many other places have legal prostitution.

Explain the difference between a prostitute, and the method of having someone love you that you described. You are saying basically "pay for her meal and she will love you".

Thats what would be called a "cheap whore".
How much trust can you put in such a person?

Especially you Jedi, with your romantic take out window dates.

People fall in love over the internet.
Its entirely their own brain chemicals creating this emotion.

People who need to love someone in order to validate their lives will readily fall in love at the drop of a hat because their brains are wired for this reaction.

A bit of maturity and self-esteem goes a long way in preventing this mistake.





[edit on 26-12-2007 by Legalizer]

Originally posted by Legalizer

Originally posted by jedimiller
But see, prostitution is illegal friends!!!.

Its not illegal everywhere, Nevada, Sweden, Germany, and many other places have legal prostitution.

Explain the difference between a prostitute, and the method of having someone love you that you described. You are saying basically "pay for her meal and she will love you".

Thats what would be called a "cheap whore".
How much trust can you put in such a person?

Especially you Jedi, with your romantic take out window dates.

People fall in love over the internet.
Its entirely their own brain chemicals creating this emotion.

People who need to love someone in order to validate their lives will readily fall in love at the drop of a hat because their brains are wired for this reaction.

A bit of maturity and self-esteem goes a long way in preventing this mistake.





[edit on 26-12-2007 by Legalizer]

Wise words Legalizer. But the bottom line is that there is no such thing as love or hate for that matter, its all infatuation and the rest is chemicals/endorphins that the brain releases to tell the brain that it likes something or that its feeling pleasure, "Steal the mind and the body must follow." If there is true love in this realm, it is when a mother concieves a child because that is love at first siight real love at first sight and is unconditional(most of the time). Everything else is exchange/trade off-- thats why you never see or atleast 99 percent of the time you never see a beautiful woman with a disfigured poor man because he haves nothing to offer not looks nor money and same thing for a guy(unless hes desperate). bottom line is that we are all whores male and female and will only be with you if the price is right or, in certain situations, and if we're happy. Nothing truly is for free.

Originally posted by TheBandit795
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Believe me it works... The NLP works as well.

heh, you don't have to convince me. I've taken lessons from Richard Bandler personally.

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Whoa! From the master himself.

You must've spent a pretty penny on that.

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actually, the reason I went was because it was a good deal for me. It was the shortest and cheapest of 3 seminars, called "Persuasion Engineering." 3 days long (8-9 hour days of lectures and activities) and it was like $400 total because of some last minute cancellations. Plus, people were flying in from all over the world to come - it was taking place within walking distance from where I lived at the time - so grabbing a seat in the conference at the last minute wasn't a big deal for me, as it would have been for people farther away that may have wanted to go.

Originally posted by DocMoreau
I have heard a 'old wives tale' that if a women feeds a man her menstrual blood in food or drink, that he will fall in love with her. I do not want to try it myself...

DocMoreau

This, I am afraid, is not an old wive's tale, at least in part. I had written an article about this a few years back for a (now) out-of-print publication. It isn't a matter of falling in love with the woman, but rather you are so emotionally bound to her that, even after years of being apart, you are still bound, to the point where you can do nothing but think of her... it would be as if you two were never seperated; this is along the lines of becoming a drone or perhaps a mental slave.

It takes alot of energy to break the connection if you are the unlucky fellow... or, if the woman feels so inclined, she may set him free by simply saying 'I set you free'; the down side is that she has to want it to be so.

disclaimer... next paragraph is of a colorful nature, and should be read under your own free will.
Not to get too graphic here, but in order for this to work at its fullest, the blood cannot be cooked or warmed, and must be given as fresh as possible. If the woman is so inclined, likewise if the male is a willing participant, consumption of the menstrual blood from the source is most potent.

If you have to do a spell to make someone love you who is not in lovce with you anyway then that love is not pure if it was forced apon then via a spell.

We all have free will to love and care about who we want and it's wrong to interfere with that. If we did the relationship would not be pure and very quickly break-up.

Originally posted by Legalizer
People fall in love over the internet.
Its entirely their own brain chemicals creating this emotion.

People who need to love someone in order to validate their lives will readily fall in love at the drop of a hat because their brains are wired for this reaction.
[edit on 26-12-2007 by Legalizer]

Legalizer, you are my respected foe and now I know why. you talk on subjects that you know nothing about. I been married, happily for 10 years. I've dated numerous females over my years, not to brag but i'd say about 300 or so ladies have come my way. and I know what woman want. they want shoes, money and makeup. that's all there is to it. Oh and they also want kids. I can sense that you have NO experience in the dating department there buddy. but hey, I don't blame you. it isn't magic, but if you follow my teaching you can go really far and I think you should.

Originally posted by person51
... or is it just a really bad idea...

Its a very bad idea. If it is possible, it would be dastardly, manipulative and the magical equivalent of rape. Real love can't be forced. As for spells, I have read a lot of little candle and rock type spells that are supposed to attract someone, but I wouldn't even do that. Try asking him/her out on a date. Good luck to you!

Originally posted by Nohup

Originally posted by person51
Is there some potion or spell or ritual or something to make someone love you? or is it just a really bad idea

there is somebody out there for everybody.

I agree on the other great points you make, but this one is something people say all of the time and it always bugs me. There are people who dont find anyone. Not to say they aren't happy, but they had 60 or so years (approximate) to find someone and didn't, so is there really someone out there for everyone? I'm pretty certain there is no one for me. I am not sad about it. I just know it is true. Maybe I was born in the wrong time or to the wrong species...

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[edit on 30-12-2007 by raven bombshell]

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This is one lady who's love you could not by with material things

Originally posted by cenasangel
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This is one lady who's love you could not by with material things

That's ok cenasangel. did you ever hear the song by madonna "material girl"? It's so true nowadays, I mean here in california, you better make 4000k pmo, have a new car, house and pay for the kids college or you get no one to love you. Yes, there are some exceptions to the rule, but any girl who get's a huge diamond ring always falls in love with you. So diamonds are magical in my book.

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Originally posted by jedimiller
and I know what woman want. they want shoes, money and makeup. that's all there is to it. Oh and they also want kids. I can sense that you have NO experience in the dating department there buddy.

I don't know about shoes, money and makeup, but women definitely want kids!! I can personally vouch for that!!

It's unfortunate that so many of them want a child NOW NOW NOW, and they don't have the patience to take the time to develop a strong, healthy, honest, trusting relationship with a guy first....

P.S. I really like your screen name there jedimiller, I wonder what or who inspired it?

(millerman)

[edit on 30-12-2007 by MrdDstrbr]

If you want to truly use magic, you should learn alchemy it does wonders.

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A ring would mean very little to me but knowing that my husband/partner is there when i wake up and there when i come home every night would mean everything.

I think it wrong to do so...freewill and all that.However..........

A while back, I fancied the a particular lady. She was in a relationship..as was I.
I had known the lady for years but never really took any notice of her. Over the years I got to know her better and was totally smitten by everything about her. I was in turmoil, as I am very loyal to my partner and was trying to figure out what was happening.....why I was feeling the way I was.

18 months later I am obsessed with the girl. She is in my mind morning, noon and night. When I made love to my partner she was there...in my mind. The lady concerned did practice witchcraft and I did wonder..mockingly.. if she had cast a spell on me

Anyhow, I started to imagine her in my life. When I awoke in the morning I felt her next to me. When I watched TV I imagined her there...and so on. I started writing poems and songs...and sing them to myself..imagining her sitting there listening. I wrote chants that I would repeat while meditating.

It took over my life essentially. I started wishing/willing/chanting that she would leave her partner and come to me for support...and we eventually became one and lived our lives together forever.

I couldn't see how it could happen but I had read "The Secret" and thought if I was positive enough, it could happen.

Well what happened? Well her husband killed himself...for no apparent reason. I started to get calls from the lady in question. But I did not answer them. I was absolutely, brown trousers scared that I had set events in place and that the guy had killed himself because of my cosmic ordering.

When I willed / wished for stuff, I did not put in the proviso about no harm coming to others.

Was it my fault? I don't know. But I will never do that again...

Some interesting points have been brought up her.

Spells, love, prostitution etc.

Spells - I'm at most a part time witch. Regardless I do follow the threefold law: any good or harm one does to another will come back to you magnified by 3. Love is not a thing you can gain by spells or lies such as telling someone you are Bill Gates' cousin or such. Love is a natural thing that happens between people of common interest, background and believes.

Prostitution/one night stands - The both amount to spending money on someone then having sex with them. Prostitution may be against the law where one lives but one night stands may not be unless one's government prohibits it such as due to religious beliefs, age of each person, family relations with each other.

Any type of relation is prone to have it's downside. Ex spouces, or boy/girl friends, STD's and other health issues. The "perfect" person may appear as a tropical sea as the sun sets. Beware this sea may have it's own unseen hazards, sharks, jellyfish, pirates, and hurricanes. Never jump in a tropical sea without a bit of research first.

Now back to regular programming, my rant is complete.

Someone spoke of a spell that would help the one that you are meant to be with find you. How does that work. I am madly, deeply in love with someone right now, and he is madly, deeply in love with me, but we aren't together. I think he fears me, or fears how deeply he feels about me, so I am basically giving up on the idea that we will ever be together, besides we have been friends for 11 years, I don't want to mess that up. So I am thinking he obvisously is NOT the one for me, but if there is someone else out there for me I sure would like to help them get to my doorstep and soon. I am so bored with the dating scene I have just given up altogether. Men have more drama now a days than women. Sorry guys, it's true. Anyhow, so how about a spell to make men straighten up and act right and find me!

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You're in luck Cowgirl! There IS a man-summoning spell just for you!

It's called - the Telephone!

One simple invocation of this very special spell will bring the man of your choice directly to you, do not pass Go do not collect $200!