posted on May, 25 2007 @ 11:41 AM
Don't give up hope, FudgeStix. My children are facing the same situation as you. It's taken my son seven years to save half the price of either a
3 to 4 bedroom home in an outer suburb, or a two bedroom apartment in the city. In order he could save even that much, we heavily subsidise his
living.
In seven more years, he may have saved an equal amount, although by then, property prices will be far increased upon those of today.
Nevertheless, if he were to continue saving at his current rate, he'd be close to having full payment on a small city dwelling ... or would be able
to buy a decent property in a regional town. Trouble is, there's not much work available in regional towns.
At least though, he'd be mortgage-free as far as his own residence was concerned and would then be able to put money aside for an investment
property, which he could then rent out with the eventual profits to be used in his later years.
I don't think our children would be prepared to live as spartanly as their parents did, though, to gain a foothold. In the early years of our
marriage, I didn't have a car or telephone, sewed my own and the children's clothes, washed cloth nappies twice daily instead of using disposable
--- made-do, in all areas. We rarely if ever 'went out' and when we did, it was simple get-togethers with friends who like us, were saving every
penny in order to whittle down the mortgage. We never considered going on holiday and repaired items such as cars and lawn-mowers, rather than
disposing of them in favour of new.
Compared to the way my spouse and I lived, our own parents beginnings were twice as spartan again ! Strangely though, our grandparents lived quite
well, even by today's standards.
But getting back to your predicament --- it's a long stretch between a cardboard box and a mill-conversion !
Mill-conversion = new plumbing and wiring, running water, electricity, probably central heating, double-glazing, good soundproofing, leak-free roof
and ceilings, sealed timber flooring (?), new, modern kitchen and bathrooms-all tiled, multiple loos, good light and lots of windows, etc. etc.
Better than living in a grass hut. Better than living in a cute-country-cottage with four foot high doorways, rising damp, cracked chimneys, jammed
windows, antique plumbing and wiring, tiny dark rooms, peeling wallpaper, bodies under the floor and a two hour commute each way.
And at least if you did begin with a mill-conversion, you could use it as a stepping stone to something else, later --- without paying, paying and
paying in the interim, for renovations and repair.
[edit on 25-5-2007 by Dock6]