For one thing, I don't have any kids...At least, none that I'm aware of (I was in the Navy for 4 years & ...well, let's just leave it at that
).
Two, even if I did have any kids, you could bet your sweet bippy that I'd
never get my kids "registered" with any government: For one, I'd
refuse the Birth Certificate in favor of filing a Record of Live Birth at the County Records Office (This is a
record, not a
registration).
Three, I'd never apply for Social Security for my kids...Obtaining an SSN is not mandatory, cannot be coerced & by Law is not required for someone to
get a job, set up a bank account or to do anything else that "authorities" normally ask your SSN for. In fact, it is
against the law for
anyone to ask for your SSN & I wouldn't want to force my kids into being submissive to the government anyway.
The parents are the best protection for the kids (as long as they fully
accept the inherent responsibility), not some faceless office-clerk
that has no real concern or commitment to the real safety, upbringing & well-being of someone else's kids. The best parents are ones that will let a
child develop their own interests & pursuits as they grow up: Teach the basic 3-R's (readin', 'rightin' & 'rithmatic
), but otherwise the
best thing to encourage is their
curiosity. Basically, whenever you child asks you about something, you should first ask them "What do you
think about it?" Let them develop their ability to
think first, then you can help them find the
answers. A parent can learn as
much from their child as the child can learn from the parent! No teacher knows all of the answers, parents included...The best thing to do is to
encourage & help your child to
find the answers. The school system doesn't encourage free-thinking & if you want your child to
really
learn, then possessing the basis of free-thinking is the best way to learn.
In this case, of the Masons doing it for free, verifiably (at least, "verifiably" being a subjective term)
not keeping or reporting any of
the info to other organizations, I think is a good idea...But it would be much better for the kids if they can understand the "why" their parents do
this. No "beating around the bush," just tell the kids the truth. Even just a simply-stated truth like, "We love you. The world has a lot of good
people in it & there's a lot of bad people too. If one of the bad ones try to take you from us, this package can help us find you again."
Although, as Bumr055 pointed out, just a package of information is no good for trying to
find the child again...This is why I wouldn't do it
for my own (hypothetical) child. What would be of more practical use is a similar "package" about the
kidnapper & I don't think a kidnapper
would "volunteer" to generate such a package & leave such info behind
at the scene of a kidnapping...
I think a good example of parenting would be when my sister got married & had a child: She & her husband would actually help teach their child about
strangers that could be good or bad & helped develop certain strategies for safety. One such strategy is that the child was taught that Mommy or Daddy
may not be able to pick him up at school themselves, but may send someone else...But the child may not know or recognize that person, so they had him
think up a "codeword" that the stranger would have to know. If the stranger didn't know the codeword, then the child would just run back to other
adults at the school & tell them about the stranger.
All in all, everyone has the ultimate responsibility for their own safety & well-being & it's best to help the child learn that as they're growing
up...Children will eventually grow up & make a life of their own anyway, so it's best to teach them what they'll need to know
during the time
they're still growing. Encourage their curiosity so they can develop their own interests...Encourage their sense of the value of
learning,
instead of being taught by rote memory, so they can learn how to think for themselves & how to find the answers for their own questions. Kids are
born with "opened eyes" upon the world they live in...To deny them the truth of that world is just another way of teaching them to "close
their eyes," which is perhaps the most
dangerous thing to do to a child.
[edit on 12-9-2008 by MidnightDStroyer]