Controlling people.

How this for generalizing.

I really don't remember when it happened but my last girlfriend exerted Toleration control over our relationship. I've have never been that into arguing with my girl's and I guess that's were she assumed control. We lived together and she controlled all aspects of the money, where we wanted to go, when, and whatever. I didn't even realize it until my sister came for a visit and I had to seperate the two after they went at it like cats. Note my sister was slapping her around like a 2 dollar whore. It was all because she wanted me to go somewhere that my girl didn't. I have since broken up with her.

Generally I usually need a woman with a forceful personality, but I also need one who realizes that this is a relationship, not a Dom and Sub one. I need one who will push me to be a better man with out trying total domination.