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Originally posted by saint4God
Originally posted by khunmoon
Same time it is a country so incredible vertile and rich in commodities, that it's disgusting to witness how the wealthy few acts. They don't need aid, they need to learn how to distribute their natural wealth.
Strange, Tang-mo's family said they appreciated the gift and were able to buy new towels that they really needed. They also use donations for livestock, food, and other things we typically take for granted on a daily basis. Fortunately she's attending school to help her and her family situation. I'm sorry, I'd have a hard time in the middle of even a U.S. city walking up to a homeless person while wagging my finger and 'educating' them "You need to learn how to distribute your natural wealth". That's bogus
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Originally posted by saint4God
Originally posted by khunmoon
The biggest privat aid given on this earth is that given by middleaged western "sexturists". If not for that, this country would have been down the drain years ago.
And economizing via prostitution is not sending a country down the drain? I'm unclear what you're advocating here.
Originally posted by khunmoon
The first thing you have to know is, in the context of their culture polygamy is perfectly ok. Up until 1920's it was legal, i.e. polygamy didn't die out as practice before the 50's-60's. There's both a social and a demographic reason for it going ages back. It helped secure the survival of women in times where no such thing as self-employment for a woman existed. Besides it would secure a genetic diversity, as it would add to the social status of any man taking more wifes. The kings of this country used to have hundreds, some suggest thousands, of mia-noys, "minor wifes", as it litteraly means. Though the practice is outlawed, any Thai man with selfrespect, will still have at least one mia-noy. Only difference, his wife can now nag him for it.
Originally posted by khunmoon
The demographic reason has to do with being a Buddhist country, it is compulsary for any man to attend to monkhood for shorter or longer terms. It's estimated up to 10% of the male population at any time reside in monkhood. Add to this Thailand has one of the highest demograpich surpluses of females born in any population on earth. Therefore the most common in rural areas is for the daughter to provide for the family. In their traditional culture it actually is the daughter who inherits the land. Thai men has always been seen as unreliable and lazy. Which I think rings true.
Therefore it has always been in the interest of the family for their daughters to get provided for, so they in turn could provide for the elderly and incapacitated members of the family. The best way to do that, has at any point been to get them well weded. Which leds to your question.
Originally posted by khunmoon
Personaly I agree with you. Yes, I think it will bring the country down the drain, but there's nothing degrading for a mother to send her daughter into prostitution, as long it will secure the provision of the family. A much greater disgrace is a daughter not to be able to take care of her old mother.
Originally posted by khunmoon
To let a daughter go to the market of "sexturists" is not seen as prostitution, but as a weding opportunity. Just bear in mind, the phenomenon should not be seen in a Christian context, it would be both wrong and prejudical.
Originally posted by khunmoon
As for the term "sexturist" I hate it and it's wrong. Elderly men often with broken families behind come here, more for the company of a spouse than for sex.
The term really says more about OUR society than THEIRS.
Despite the fact it cannot be read in any statistics, they contribute to a degree essential to keep this country afloat. But I'm glad that you, saint4God, have brought my attention to the help goodhearted people donate out of unselfish care for the needy here. I don't know how much that aid amounts, but it might run close to that old men bring.
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