Relationship Avoidance

And Welcome to this thread of how to AVOID getting into a relationship, how and why.

How? Their two ways, the Easy way, which is simply gentle monitering of yourself, and the hard way, serious isolation. Your pick, but the hard way will lead to insanity, so take in doses.

Why? Well, emotional freedom, not to mention any other freedoms... You arent worrying, hoping, and my personal favorite, obsessed with anyone, which can have a negative effect on you.

In all honesty, folks, this is a giant pun, but I simply glace at this forum and it turns my stomach.

Not to mention all the petty BS I See so many couples go through to stay together. Sometimes U shouldjust let go ...

I was single for 5 years up until this year, purely by my own free will and lack of desire to get caught up in the 'dating game' we play in this day and age.

And believe me, good things do indeed come to those who wait

So U have sworn off relationships Raideur ?

[edit on 13-12-2005 by ImJaded]

You dont know the half of it, heh...

And BTW folks, You look REALLY stupid when you make public displays of affection.

I can imagine though lol

Don't let a few fools ruin it for the good ones though k ?

LOL! Seriously?
Isolation. to suggest that a human can monitor one's self is to ask the human to be objective. We lie to ourselves on an hourly basis, if not more so.
We will lie to ourselves, allowing ourselves to wander down a path of certain pain, almost as readily as lemmings to the cliff.

Good luck.

You can be objective all the time! Its rather hard, but certainly possible!

The trick to not lying to yourself is to understand your underlying motive for doing something, and if you, Being objective, can understand that, you havent lied to yourself, but simply acted on information, and you understand it.

Knowing why you have unusual emotions or understanding strange social behavior are both excellent examples.

So this is really hard for men ?

Apologies if I misunderstood.

I consider both sexes equally motivated. The myth that men are more out of control is simply that, a myth.

TextAnd BTW folks, You look REALLY stupid when you make public displays of affection.

exactly!!!...unless its for something like this......auto pornography...