who in there right mind

A friend and I where planing to go out for the eveing and she wanted to go out ot a nice dinner then bar hop around town.... I told her That was stupid why would I want to speend $90 on dinner just so I could puke it up later....As alwas she got her way and the next day I puked up a $90 dinner put in in a bowl and sat it infrount of her for breakfast and said enjoy that cost me $90........ She was pissed and so we fought and now she thinks I'm repulsive and immature.....I hate it when that happens Word from the wise never eat then drink ..........any one else feel the same...
And Dan the man from sliverton Why haven't you posted yet?

I don't mean to come down hard on you....after all, I really think that you want someone to side with you on this particular instance. However, it is up to you to decide whether you want to go out or not. It is up to you to stand up to your friend and say no. If your friend still wants to go out, let your friend go.

Furthermore, since you did decide to go out, why must you feel compelled to first, spend as much as you did and, secondly, are you not able to simply stop drinking? Can't you control yourself?

Finally, yes, you were immature and very, very passive aggressive in actually collecting your, ugh, vomit, saving it and "serving it for breakfast.

I'm not a psychologist but it really doesn't take one to recognize that you might consider dealing with your passive aggressiveness. Aren't you able to stand up for yourself? Next, you appear to be co-dependent. As you are unable to say "no", you appear that you might feel that if you did, you might lose your friendship. And, I may not be saying that you have alcoholism but it would appear that you might have an alcohol problem. Drinking til you puke is not what one would call "social drinking".

I think that you need to look inward, and not at your "friends' problem". Your problem begins with yourself. I would suggest that you reconsider a few things about yourself, your sense of identity and self worth before you go on to consider blaming your friends.

Remember, your friends can't make you do anything you don't want to do. No one can make you do anything. And if you feel that way, then you are not in control of yourself!

I don't mean to sound cruel or harsh but, frankly, this is my opinion and that's what you asked for. Good luck and take care of yourself.

I am sorry but I agree. That was disgusting.

and to someone like me a total waste of money and health. The drinking was more important to you than food. Then extracting revenge on friend "who got there own way" was more important to you than simple manners and decorum.

*shudders and can't believe that people would do that sort of thing let alone to someone else.

*leaves thread before she really speaks her mind.............

I think this type of post is more suited to a myspace blog than a public forum like this.

Well ..once you posted it I guess i'll give my op... it was pretty exagerated amd immature of you to present her with your puke in a bolw...there are many other matture ways to tell her your problem... Besides you said "as usual she got her way"... that shows it isnt the first time this happens, so maybe you should just find another friend that would enjoy "bar-hopping" with you. This way not only you would save your money, but you would also not puke it the next day... and even better avoy arguments like this.

Nothing but disgusting, I regret clicking on this now

yeah, what Mayet and benevolent tyrant said :shk:

While I can sympathise with you, I will say this; if you presented me with a bowl full of sick, I'd chuck it over your head.

If you eat and then drink, isn't it obvious not to drink too much?
You didnt have to drink.

It was a good idea and it appealed to my sence of humor but then later I regreated it. No I don't have a drinking problem...her And I useally line up shots and compeate and that night I had one....If shes reading this I'm sorry...And thank you for helping me in to bed.........any way I was meaning the princable of the matter that was my point .....Its a wast of money and from now on I'm not going to eat or drink that much unless she's paying(LOL)
Let me explain things you see things work differently for us rebels and we tend to play pranks on one another when we have a problem like ine time in high school I got my hand super gluded to my face..... I passed out one time and my friends wrote obsenities all over my body in permate pen.................you get the picture, things around here are out of controll like the TV show "viva la Bam" onn MTV just crazy and pointless but we do have a seince of responcability, we work hard and play when we can...By the way I'm not that passive agressive but I am a mellow darmatic perdon

Im going out now to the pub... and NO I wont be eating while I'm out. Beer heaven, here I come!