pro life theory?

I have a theory that many of the pro lifers who advocate the death penalty and other violence are victims of unwanted pregnancies and for varying reasons, didn't have the option of abortion. Now whatever hardships they were made to endure, they apparently wish on others by denying them the right to choose.

But how can these pro lifers say it's murder to abort a fetus then turn around and call it justice to kill for punishment. They cannot have it both ways. If killing is wrong, except in matters of self preservation, then it's always wrong. So why so much hatefulness in these people supporting the death penalty. What happened to forgiveness and redemption?

In conclusion, I firmly believe these people don't give a dam about other people's unborn babies, any more then they care for those who fall from grace!