The Medium girlfriend and the empathic me...

All right,

Documentation time...

My girlfriend is seeing things that "aren't" there, I stress aren't because I know not everyone can see the paranormal. She sees a male figure standing near her closet, and it usually when she startles awake from being alseep.

I chalk it up to Hypnogogic sleep trances, and sleep paralysis. However tonight while we are chilling at home watching the movie Sahara on in Demand Cable, she jolts while crossing in front of the doorway into our garage. The doorway is usually open this time of night, to let in the cool night air and I have a near straight on view of this door and can see clear outside as well, past the garage door opening.

Well she said she saw someone standing there, I see nothing. About 30 minutes later, she crosses by there again, and goes into the kitchen, she comes by again, and startles. This time I kept an eye on her and the doorway, and I see nothing and yet she claims she did. I even went over there to get an accurate idea of where she saw it, and I would have from my original vantage point of sitting in chair, had most defintely would have seen it.

These are only a few quirky things that happen at the house, but other than some spooky feelings once in a while, I see ZERO that I can say without a doubt is concrete haunting stuff. I dismiss the out of the corner of my eye stuff.

As another note, the doorway to the garage is roughly 1 floor down from near the closet in our bedroom, give or take 5-7ft or about 1.5 to 2.2 meters. This is the closet she sees things standing in.

Now just becuase I don't see it, doesn't mean she doesn't, or at least believes she does. The part that is hardest for me, is that the topic in general is too scary for her, and she will only talk about it in the daytime. I also have to "babysit" her at night when she feels scared. "Babysit" as not leaving her for more than 1 minute at a time, that can try ones patience especially if I'm not tired, yet she wants to go to bed, such as this evening.

So I guess I just wanted to share this with you all, feel free to add whatever.

Thanks,

-ADHDsux4me

Does she see details, or just a shadowy shape? Could be more similar to shadow people phenomenon, than mediumship.....

Originally posted by Gazrok
Does she see details, or just a shadowy shape? Could be more similar to shadow people phenomenon, than mediumship.....

Yes I asked her today and she saw the lower torso and legs much more clearly than rest, she saw "it" wearing Blue Jeans.

Before when she claimed to see the apparition after sleeping then startling awake, she said she saw a male slightly larger than me, but it reminder her of me in a sense. Similar build etc.

There are no males in my family that are larger than me with the same build type, I am the largest and have been for the last few generations.

-ADHDsux4me

Is the blue jeans guy the only thing she sees thats not really there? Has she ever seen another person or object that was out of place?

Does the "ghost" remind her of someone in her family? Rather than yours.

Would it be possible for you to research the houses previous owners? Ask neighbors about a possible death in that house, etc.

Do you call your girlfriend a medium because she sees ghosts, or becuse she can do other above-normal things?

No need to personally answer these questions, but they are more like things you could be asking yourself.