confidense, looks and personality

those of you who have seen my posts here b4 would have probalby gathered how hopeless i am with realtionships so here i go with my next idea

i have been losing weight im half a stone from being normal weight

and theres a girl who i like and cant stop thinking about anyway she found out i like her and we had a long talk about it a little later her boyfriend dumped her i got the impresion she likes me as a friend and we are really good mates and have good conversations

ive been doing weight training for the last few weeks and sit ups, pressups
im now going to put running into the equation

but my overall question is will having a sixpack and looking any more different change her view on me?

note: i never asked her if she likes me in that way as she was still going out with her boyfriend at the time

my over all plan so far is to get into shape and talk to her again and ask her how she feels

[edit on 30-4-2005 by klain]

[edit on 30-4-2005 by klain]

All that stuff you are doing, should be for yourself.
Not for anyone else. If you are happy with the way you look
after all this, it will be a confidence builder..

Things change when you exude confidence.
Then your problem won't just be her..
It will be her...and her...and her...and that girl, and that one..
know what I mean?

All that stuff you are doing, should be for yourself.

this is so true....

You really need to get to like who you are yourself,

You have to become happy within yourself and if someone does not like it then there loss...

I know you like this girl and if she likes you its becouse of who you are not what you look like,

Get fit if you would feel better about yourself, get that 6 pack if that would make you that little bit more happy, but the end of the day its all about you,

Even if girls like you for your appearance and go out with you due to that it wont last unless you click with each other, and when that happens looks and apearance dont come in to it,

look good for yourself

Deffinatly listen to Asala, she knows what shes saying, shes like my go-to advice person (other than Rel, Day and Astral )

But just stay you no matter what, people will like you for you

yup definatley agree thanks for every1's advice i think for all there work asala, daystar and relentless should have some sort of relationship award for all there good advice and time spent nice 1 guys

i spose i know at hart its got t be for me but its a bit of both at the moment


[edit on 1-5-2005 by klain]

[edit on 1-5-2005 by klain]

well mate....i would definatley keep toning up......dont go to over the top...just build up a subtle toned effect....to demonstrate i have included a picture of myself....




will it change how she thinks?....probably not mate.....adhere to the above advice..do it for your self......if she likes you she wont be worried wether or not you can wash clothes on your abs.

regards.

lol nice advice i like the part about the abs would'nt a woman like a man to does the washing lol

I no from experience son... trust me- girls dont go for the looks after they no you, looks dont matter all if yer friends with em and want more, its not a over riding factor, they want charm and someone to love them, not a hunk ready for sex like most guys want in a girl

thats some good advice

im not that type of bloke for that last bit i just want her to notice me for the same way i notice her