betrayal hurts!

i had been seeing this girl for 3 weeks. not too bad. it was my 18th birthday party on the 26th march great night etc. next day she breaks up with me,says its not working etc. i get depressed and anoyed for a few days but get over it. nearly 2 weeks later i find out that the day before she breaks up with me(my b'day party) i find out that she and my best mate get off with each other. she breaks up with me, he breaks up with his girlfrend and they get together. ok maybe i am over reacting but the thing is they both decided it wud be a good idea to lie for me for nearly 2 weeks. for a while i did consider hitting him but thats not me. for now i am just ignoring them. why has this happened, why could someone so close to me do this(refering to my mate that is-just to say he didnt used to be like this yuntil bout three weeks ago)

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How long have you two been mates? A female should come between to friends, but if this is going to keep happening, then there is a problem.

we all have sort of groups of friends. my group of mates has been going for 8 or more years. me and him have been mates for the last 4 years(approx). the group to which the girl belongs we have know for about 7 months now.

punch your so called friend in the guts...(not the face).......spit on him and get better friends......sorry dude,thats a bummer.

both of those thorts had passed thru my mind but i aint like that. he thinks i shud av hit him so im not goan give him the satisfaction. at least we had the same idea.

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Women. Can't live with 'em. Can't kill 'em. It's a conundrum.

I make it a point to never fight with male friends over a woman...there are just to many women out there to fight over one. If you must ...you'd better rethink her value in the marketplace ...quickly.
I have told this to many of my male friends...if they want her..so badly ..take her. Life is too short to get insanely jealous about any one woman. If you do ..its a sign you are on a drug and need it badly. If so, then youd better re evaluate your relationship with this woman/girl. She may be the one.
When I got to liking a woman who was going with a friend of mine ..I told him about it when the time was right..I didnt let her know till the time was right. I valued the guys friendship more than the woman. There is no shortage of women /girls out there.

Also Jeff..you are very young and at a very imressionable age...very emotional. Be very careful about your emotions they can decieve you about many things.

Thanks ,
Orangetom