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The kind stranger was watching us and asked me why I didn't just jump and reach up for the apples closer to the ground.
"The apples closer to the top taste better." I replied.
"How do you know?"He asked
I told him I didn't. I grabbed an apple that was just out of my reach, and tried it.
It tasted good.
Thank you TheEndIsHere.
The gentlemen did me a favour that day because he showed me it was better to try and see for myself rather than hang on to my assumptions.
I have questioned my ability as a Dad my whole life, and have often regretted making poor decisions or worse when it comes to my role with my children and their Mom. There are many reasons or excuses for that, nobody is perfect. My shortcomings in life, especially when I realize information or lessons that I feel I should have learned sooner crushes my heart when I look back retroactively on how that knowledge may have saved so much pain I put my loved ones through.
I have talked with my Dad about this, from time to time. He does his best to reasure me which feels good after not talking for an extended period when I felt I needed him the most. He reminds me from his own experience, that often realizing and accepting the painful lessons of the past gives one the opportunity to create an even better future for themselves than if they had gone through that.
Thank you for sharing your insights with me. I practice learning as best I can what life has to offer and need all the help I can get. I used to feel when I first started my family very alone because my Dad and my Grandparents disowned me for a long time. Things are much better now, my Dad is in my life, and my Grandparents are in my heart. I don't feel like I have to face everything on my own anymore, and look forward to each day.
This season has been one of the best for me in a long time, I feel practising humility and giving thanks on the regular are virtues that help make dreams come true.
🙏
Namaste
The gentlemen did me a favour that day because he showed me it was better to try and see for myself rather than hang on to my assumptions.