posted on Jul, 24 2022 @ 07:45 PM
a reply to:
JAGStorm
In the early 1990's, both my paternal grandparents passed within a few months to the day of one another. My grandfather passed second, and his last
words were and exclamation of 'Babe ... Babe!", which was what he called my grandmother, and that was it, he was dead without further comment, or
suffering. He had dementia, and just died like that, sitting in his chair. They were both gone then.
It was not sad for the family, although we truly missed these grandparents / parents ... because they lived to be in their 90's, and at that point,
living became a problem for them, and we were actually thankful that we had them so long, and in the end that they were not suffering any longer,
because they had lots of health problems in the very end.
Then, about a month later, I had a dream. It was very real, and I was in their living room with them, and they were both sitting in their usual
chairs, and my grandmother was talking to me. She said they both loved myself and my brother, and cared for us very much, and that was that. It was
very comforting. I was 21 at the time. I woke up, and I could smell my grandmother's perfume. It was only one kind of perfume, and a little
obnoxious actually, but that was her style. The scent lingered for about 10 minutes. I believe it was true communication, and I will always be
thankful for that last contact.