posted on Jul, 21 2022 @ 09:43 PM
a reply to:
TheSpanishArcher
I watched a documentary a few years ago about Eddie Van Halen going to Jason's parents house to meet Jason in person and Eddie gifted him one of his
guitars and spent the whole day hanging out with Jason and his family.
My ex wife was a hospice nurse and one of her patients had ALS and he passed within 2 or 3 years of diagnosis. A lot of factors come into play that
can determine how long an ALS patient can survive and the biggest one seems to be their will to live as most of then don't have the resources or the
support to keep going once they get to the point where they require a tracheotomy and supplemental oxygen and full time care. Then there's the level
of care that they receive.
While not ALS, Christopher Reeve had the same degree of mobility after his accident as Jason has and he ended up dying from infections from constant
bed sores. That broke my heart because Superman was the 2nd movie I saw in a theater as a kid so watching him die from bed sores was a little mind
blowing.
What seems to keeps Jason going is a combination of a massive support system from his family who are his primary caregivers, and the ability to still
write music thanks to the software that his dad designed for him. His dad also came up with the software that allows him to communicate, similar to
what Stephen Hawking used. He's another one who lasted decades after his initial diagnosis. I believe that the common thread was that they were both
passionate about their work, whether it be science or music, they had something that mentally kept them going whereas most patients don't want to live
like that or be a burden to their families, or worse, lack the resources to have the level of care necessary for the longevity that both Jason and
Hawking were blessed with.
It was honestly difficult to watch the documentary with Eddie Van Halen because I just wanted to remember Jason as half of Cacophony with Marty
Friedman. I think it's really awesome though that when Jason composes music friends like Marty, Paul Gilbert and Steve Vai will come in and play these
amazingly intricate pieces that Jason has composed.
I highly recommend the 2012 documentary, "Jason Becker Not Dead Yet". It's simultaneously heartbreaking and inspiring.
edit on 21-7-2022 by
peter vlar because: (no reason given)