Men are attracted to more masculine women now

originally posted by: Cassi3l
a reply to: JAGStorm

Girls will be boys and boys will be girls, it's a mixed up muddled up, shook up world and so is Lola...

originally posted by: SouthernGift
There’s many studies on birth control pills influencing a woman’s choice of partner, swinging it to the feminine side.

There are also studies showing that divorce rates increase with women that met and married their partners while take birth control pills. The divorce rates greatly increase when the woman stops taking her birth control pills; not only is she no longer attracted to but can BARELY tolerate her husband. The irony is the reason for the ceasation..to have children.

a reply to: JAGStorm


pffffffft. We have much bigger problems than that. Check out some of the Tinder profiles! For those who don't know what tinder is, it is a dating app.

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Most of the young women I know still want a masculine man-but...with good hygiene and manners. My son has dated all types but his number one attraction to a woman, he says, is intelligence. But, I don't believe it based on who he's brought home. His present girlfriend describes herself as "alternative," whatever that is-she looks goth and I'm afraid to ask many questions.

originally posted by: seeker1963
a reply to: JAGStorm


pffffffft. We have much bigger problems than that. Check out some of the Tinder profiles! For those who don't know what tinder is, it is a dating app.

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If they are real profiles that's messed up, WTF @ non binary, polygamous feminist what now, I must be getting old, well either that or these are the " beautiful ones" as described by the behavioral sink experiments.

There have always been some men who are attracted to tomboys. There have always been some women who are attracted to more feminine guys too. This isn't new. I was attracted to either type, but I never desired to date a girl who could beat me up. Just like I never fish for fish that eat humans or hunt for animals that like to attack and eat people.

a reply to: hopenotfeariswhatweneed

Lo-Lo Lo Lo-Lo Laaaaa ...
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It just goes to show that mœurs haven't changed that much in 50yrs or so

a reply to: Cassi3l

So it seems.

I love that song, I still play it everynow and again and sing along..

More masculine isn't necessarily a woman that could beat me up, but one that can walk through the woods without squealing or jump on a four wheeler or enjoys mud bogging on a weekend. Because sometimes thats how I relax after a long work week . LOL a good country girl just about beats a city girl every time unless you are stuck in a city. Cause been there and done that too.

a reply to: putnam6

It's a fine line, we have those country girls here, but they have hairy armpits and hairy... we'll suffice to say if a blend of city/country girl existed I want to meet her .

a reply to: JAGStorm

Ever notice in sports masculine looking girls?,because for the most part they are dudes who call them selves women.liberals have destroyed society

originally posted by: hopenotfeariswhatweneed
a reply to: putnam6

It's a fine line, we have those country girls here, but they have hairy armpits and hairy... we'll suffice to say if a blend of city/country girl existed I want to meet her .

LOL not talking about some mutant LOL. Such a cultural myth, just your farmers' daughter LOL like Carrie Underwood is a self-admitted country girl from Chetowah Ok. Besides every country gal I've met understood basic grooming and hygiene LOL ie they knew how to use the sheep shears on their bunny trails.

originally posted by: JAGStorm

originally posted by: neo96
The op has a point in the era of toxic masculinity and manspreading phobes.

I did a quick search, seriously 5 min of 1940s women vs 2019 women...... See what I mean

Any woman can look like an old time hottie with make-up. It's just skin paint, and it's not an accurate reflection of how someone really looks with bare skin. Plastic surgery also helps in that deception. It took Marilyn Monroe a LOT of make-up, hair dye and some plastic surgery to look as hot as she did. Keeping that in mind, it's a deception at best, not taking care of oneself or being better than the next girl.

I think what people are having trouble grappling with is that folks like me who eschew make-up as an expensive skin-wrecking bane are becoming more common. Am I fairly plain without make-up? Yes, and what no woman wants to admit is that most of us ARE rather plain without the paint.
Am I masculine without make-up? I dunno, I'm not so shallow & hung up on my looks that I feel the need to quantify them further to feign happiness or self esteem. In all seriousness, life is damn good, I have nothing to complain about. and whatever I could come up with to complain about, face paint ain't going to fix it any.

Women are extremely insecure about their faces, and it's kind of stupid. Come on, if all the make-up on the planet disappeared overnight, the bulk of the 1st World women would be emotional messes & never go outside. Over condoned fakeness not being available. That's pretty pathetic. Self confidence exists in spite of make-up, not because of it (giving those with extreme issues like genuine disfiguration from burns/severe scarring & true coverup make-up for it a pass, BTW)

originally posted by: Justso
His present girlfriend describes herself as "alternative," whatever that is-she looks goth and I'm afraid to ask many questions.

And why is that? When I was a teen and goths were a style Thing in the late 90's, one of my closest friends was a goth dude. He was very light on the goth make-up, though, he pulled off the look with just the eyeliner shtick most of the time, if he wore any at all.
Restaurant staff always gave him the side-eye, but he had better manners than even the prim & proper old folks, and could tell you exactly what every single weird utensil on the table was for, and exactly why someone set the table flat wrong, etc. As the guest for meals at whichever friends home he was invited to, he even knew host/hostess gratitude etiquette (what to be expected from guests as thanks)

And he was the kindest, most gentle person you could ever wish to meet in your life, still is. He sure looked intimidating, but IMO, that could easily have been seen in hindsight as a test to see who would treat him poorly and who wouldn't. If you could ignore his weirdo exterior, you were rewarded with a damn good friend, or in the case of older folks, shocked with his spot-on etiquette and kindness.

If you have a question for your kid's girlfriend, just ask her. You're probably going to be surprised with the answer.

Genders are getting blurred but I feel that before you can make a statement like this you must have a HUGE body of research to back it up.

"I have noticed..." just doesn't cut it.

a reply to: Nyiah

Well, at this point I only know what I am told. They live almost 2k miles from me. My approach is whatever makes him happy. His manner of telling me about her says he is kinda expecting a certain response. Don't have any real ideas what he meant by alternative except what he described as her outward appearance-tattoos and such. Don't have any trips planned.

originally posted by: JAGStorm

originally posted by: neo96
The op has a point in the era of toxic masculinity and manspreading phobes.

I did a quick search, seriously 5 min of 1940s women vs 2019 women...... See what I mean

I don't.. if you mean miley? man that is an ugly human being, no matter which way you look.

yowsers.

I'm not seeing the OP as it's stated.. I still prefer strong, yet womenly women. Not butch the wonder what.. woman.

originally posted by: Brotherman
What I grew up understanding about men and women no longer apply apparently, no wonder it’s hard to catch a date with a lady these days.

This is the problem, I think.

People are too busy looking, and not listening.

It's what is within, that attracts me. Someone kind, open, honest, sincere, and loving, is far more attractive to me than a scented painting.

Get to know people, stop just wanting something... no one stops to know anyone any more, and instead we're all just parading around in skimpy outfits or muscle shirts, saying I'm the prettiest peacock..

originally posted by: KansasGirl
a reply to: JAGStorm

If your statement is true then I'm out of luck in the boyfriend department, because I love being a woman and I can't even imagine trying to look or be "masculine."

I can see the pretty man thing, how the younger generation are attracted to more effeminate looking men, but I don't see the reverse. I think men will always be attracted and distracted by a sexy feminine woman. That's biological, I don't think that will ever change.

IF that is you in your avatar, trust me.. there will be no end to the vacuous boys who will seek you, lure you and try to seduce you.

I hope you're secure enough to know that. But it will be a man who will want you for your reasoning, your will, your intent.

I'm just glad I realised before I am 50 years old, to know what attracts me. the eyes are the windows to the soul, but the mind is the doorway to passion.

originally posted by: Mandroid7
Anybody see porn lately?

There is a bunch of guys that had boobs installed.

Hahaha holy buckets.. what the hell kinda porn you watching, man !!