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originally posted by: PhatalError
a reply to: seeker1963
Same way i felt for the most part. Took me slightly longer to catch on. I attributes it to elsewhere. I always like to find a way to defy my thoughts though. Drives me to research more. Which in turn drives me
To learn more. Thats why i love this site. Been visiting here since i was 16. Im in my 30’s now.
I was also in the military. US Army, 1 CD. 11B.
I know all too well what youre saying. I agree partially with your latter statement
originally posted by: verschickter
a reply to: seeker1963
Sorry to interject but I see it this way:
If someone likes to sort stuff because he can´t find peace when it´s all over the place this is called OCD and is considered a mental health "problem".
So if someone thinks he´s in the wrong body and want´s to undergo a painfull procedure to change that isn´t considered a mental health problem then?
originally posted by: AndyFromMichigan
My interpretation is that transgender people basically suffer from a lack of self-esteem. They cannot accept themselves as they are, and have become fixated on the idea that their lives would be better if they had born the opposite gender. Studies have shown that post-operative transgender people really aren't any happier than they were before. (For example, a while back Caitlin Jenner said she was thinking about becoming a man again.) It's because they're treating the symptoms, not the underlying issue.
originally posted by: kaylaluv
a reply to: dug88
Transitioning is HARD. I have met people undergoing transition, and believe me, if they were only doing it to make their lives easier, they would have backed out long ago.
Also want to add that transgender people have just as varied personalities as any other group of people. I know avid gun owners who never shut up about the guns they have. They sure are proud of them and talk my ear off about this gun or that gun, how powerful it is - and they get all emotional at the possibility (no matter how far remote it is) of having their guns taken away. You might say they’re obsessed with guns! I know other gun owners who you would never know they had any guns at all - they just don’t feel the need to talk about it.
I really don't care at this point. What bothers me the most is how this "life style" is being pushed and promoted on our children!
Go and use BING and make sure your parental controls are off and type in under videos "Sissy Hypno"! There are hundreds of videos that are there to subliminally hypnotize males into becoming females.
originally posted by: Asktheanimals
I have to wonder what role social pressures play in gender dysphoria. There is certainly some self-obsession going on and for some being transgender has the bonus of attention from others. It's a very alien concept to me personally and knowing only 1 fully post-op trans person has only reinforced that view of attention seeking.
originally posted by: dragonridr
a reply to: Mahogany
What does being gay have to do with transgender? Not all transgender are gay. In fact most are not this is about how they view themselves not sexual preferences. In fact this is one of the problems transgenders deal with is relationships. Its very hard to find a spouse who is ok with you changing your gender. And even after its difficult to find people ok with your decision.
They believe changing genders helps them in truth they are just gaining new problems. It isn't a solution and often times can even lead to suicide. In this study as high as 50 percent attempt it.
www.hrc.org...
originally posted by: AndyFromMichigan
My interpretation is that transgender people basically suffer from a lack of self-esteem. They cannot accept themselves as they are, and have become fixated on the idea that their lives would be better if they had born the opposite gender. Studies have shown that post-operative transgender people really aren't any happier than they were before. (For example, a while back Caitlin Jenner said she was thinking about becoming a man again.) It's because they're treating the symptoms, not the underlying issue.