What do you look for in a long term partner?

a reply to: Mousygretchen

Oooh I'll have to check them out, sounds interesting.

originally posted by: Meldionne1

originally posted by: badw0lf
Doesn't matter, they all betray you eventually.

Be prepared to be told to just let it go, when they do. Because the female side of any relationship, is never wrong. Angels lie to keep control.

Well damn .... Who peed in your Wheaties ??

My ex did, and it was my corn flakes. Those insidious things pretending to be a nutritious breakfast cereal.

And she didn't do it. She got her new man to. While wearing our engagement ring

*recites spell of protection*

a reply to: DiaJax

Oh not by a long shot, but when all is said and done, it's always been myself that gets to pick the pieces up while they happily move on. Mutual friends tell me to let it go, move on, etc, etc, but without resolution it's hard. Even harder when any reaction is simply platitudes.

When you give your all, and it is all for nothing in the end, you tend to get jaded. just a little. Especially when you get told the same pitiful things, while they get congrats.

dont mind me, I know it goes both ways. life, those little slices of being awake.. :/

Care and understanding are very important!