don't know where else to turn, found some odd stuff on my girlfriends kik messenger.

a reply to: dr1234

Hey,

Firstly, if she had inbox messages but hadn't replied then her claim of not using it could be true. Do you have any proof she is?

Secondly, how do you feel about the relationship? If she is using it, will that change things for you?

Thirdly, is this the kind of place you want to be in? Going through your partners phone because of what colleagues said isn't a particularly healthy thing to do. How do you know her password (aka I know my partners through sending texts for him while he's driving and looking at photos he's taken if we've been out etc. I don't use it for going through his phone). It doesn't sound too healthy at the moment - do you have other reasons to be concerned?