a reply to:
hopenotfeariswhatweneed
I clearly don't support this officer's actions.
That said, I think most (not all) situations like this are a result from an officer letting the job get to them.
I can say that I have experienced a few situations in my ten year career in which I almost snapped like the officer in the video (thank God I didn't).
I can also say with 100% certainty that it was due to stress from the job. The horrible things I saw, the horrible people I had dealt with, the
horrible ways in which they treated me, all came to a head on those occasions. The stress got to me and I almost lashed out. On one of the occasions I
left work early. I used sick time for the remainder of my day. I used it as a time to cool off.
Now, I don't write this to excuse an officer's actions in situations like this. I am just saying that I don't think most of these situations are a
result of low IQ, steroid use, militarization, or some grand conspiracy to enslave US citizens. I think in most of these situations we are seeing
human beings succumbing to high levels of stress.
The problem is, many officers don't recognize when, or don't want to believe they have reached what I refer to as their "career boiling point." A time
in which an officer can no longer do the job without the possibility of "snapping."
I personally feel that when that point is reached, an officer should do everything in their power to make a change. That change may be attending
counseling, a lateral transfer to a less stressful position within the police department, or even leaving the career.
*For those that wish to hear my personal story*
I remember when I reached my career boiling point like it was yesterday. As a school resource officer I was handling an ongoing situation between two
high school aged girls that were impregnated by the same guy. To make a long story short, the girls harassed each other equally on a daily basis. In
person and on Facebook. Their adult mothers came to the school on multiple occasions trying to start fights. They also participated in Facebook
harassment.
One Saturday (when I was off duty), one of the adult mothers drove her daughter to the others house. They all brought knives to fight. Some people
were hurt, but luckily nothing serious. All declined to press charges against one another.
On Monday when the families returned, I called them to my office for yet another counseling session. This time I was verbally attacked by the mothers
and their daughters. I was called a POS, racist, "cracka" cop that didn't care about helping them. One, must remember nobody was EVER physically
harmed on school property, the area in which I was responsible for.
I remember the rage that woke inside of me. I swear, all of the dead bodies, the rapes, the domestic abuse, the lying, the yelling, and all of the
times in which I was verbally attacked flashed through my head. Just as I was about to "snap," I walked out of my office. I thought to myself thank
God these were all women, because if not it very well may have gotten physical.
I then asked myself what happened? How did I get to this point? The person I was becoming was not me. At that time, I was 29 years old. I had always
been a calm, rational, understanding, and patient person. Hell, I have Buddha tattooed on my arm. I don't use drugs, don't smoke, and barely drink. So
what changed me? It was at that point that I realized it was the stress from the job.
Three years ago I realized I reached my "career boiling point." Last year I made a change. I am slowly returning to the normal me. If I didn't realize
a change was necessary, I very well may have been on one of these Youtube videos. Not because I am a monster, not because I am a bad person, simply
because I am a human and I can break.
Again, not excusing this officer's actions, but maybe he didn't realize he had reached his "career boiling point." Hopefully, more officers can
realize when it's time to hang up their belts.
*Sorry for straying off topic OP*
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