MEN: Official Lady Advice Given Here.

Hey!

I cleaned my posts up. I don't know where my head was.

reply to post by ewokdisco


You're an interesting fellow, so I have an appropriate desktop image as a gift for thee:

[atsimg]http://files.abovetopsecret.com/images/member/138b6363c5dd.jpg[/atsimg]

Originally posted by schrodingers dog
reply to post by ewokdisco

 

You're an interesting fellow, so I have an appropriate desktop image as a gift for thee:

[atsimg]http://files.abovetopsecret.com/images/member/138b6363c5dd.jpg[/atsimg]

LOOOOOOOOOOL

But you just took that off your own desktop didnt you

To be honest though, at least, unlike the OP, you can actually back it up

reply to post by OzWeatherman


Yes, but that's after I scanned it from my teeshirt.

how come women play that mind game when you ask them whats wrong or whats for dinner..? they tend to jump around their true feelings and expect me to know what theyre thinking.

Yes, they expect you to know, because as her loved one, you are magically supposed to know exactly where her head is at...even though it should have been obvious by now, that we don't. This is one of those things where you just can't win. (see below)

i asked my wife what our plans were for dinner, and she got mad for me asking... like i told her to make me dinner.

It's all in HOW you ask. Did you say, "Honey, what should WE do for dinner?" or did you say something like, "What's for dinner?" Make sure to make it a WE question... Oh, and women routinely don't know what they want for dinner (they know only what they DON'T want, and still won't fess up to it). So, pick whatever you're in the mood for (especially if something she likes), and then watch her reactions. Keep making suggestions if you get the stink eye, but make them quick, and once you pick one, STICK with it.

or you ask them whats wrong, and they say, "o nothing" so i continue to play some COD and 20 mins later its, "you never pat attention to me, you even know somethings wrong?" well i did jusf ask ya...

But you're supposed to KNOW what's wrong. Another one of those, just can't win scenarios. We guys are looking for a RESOLUTION....gals don't have the same goal, not really. Your mistake was to keep doing what you were doing. Even though she said nothing, if you have to ask, something is wrong. You'll have to show the sacrifice, stop what you are doing, and try to talk it out. Admit you're an idiot, and need to be told the problem to address it (it will save time).

Why did my misses hit my over the head with remote after i turned the TV over when she was watching X Factor she even said she would tape me to the wall if i did it again

She probably didn't know where the tape was...and the remote was just more handy. Get a DVR, problem solved.

i still have the "brown love" issue guys.......

its serious and i need advice

You shouldn't have to do something you don't want to do. Maybe find some other things your partner hasn't done, that would also interest you. Chances are, your partner is really just looking for something to change it up. If this is really a particular fetish though...this could lead to straying. You have to identify whether it's just a curiosity or a real fetish. Check their porn, if a large percentage is of this type, then it's probably a fetish, and you should either try it out at least once, or hope that porn alone will satisfy the fetish (while realizing that if the person does get the opportunity to explore the fetish...they probably will).


As for my own credentials, I've been married now for almost 7 years, and it's my only marriage. My wife is also my best friend, and I'm usually considered to be a great husband by her friends. Of course, I still make mistakes all the time too (as my wife will tell you), but I've learned what I feel are some valuable insights into this area, and can only offer my advice for you to read over, and use what you like, and throw out the rest.

Originally posted by schrodingers dog
reply to post by OzWeatherman

 

Yes, but that's after I scanned it from my teeshirt.

LOL

Stop making me laugh, you're getting me all excited and stimulated (in a totally non sexual way) and I need to go to bed

reply to post by mblahnikluver


i told another older member they have problems? lmao yea ok then ...i sed that he has been here longer than me and has more experience of ats......

whats the issue?

u obviously came in here just to have a go at me rather than to reply or take part in the thread, which makes you a troll.

good day

reply to post by NWOnoworldorder


Um I am not a troll so don't go accusing me of one. This place has rules and if you don't abide by them people will call you out, deal with it.

You are new so you might really want to read the terms and conditions.

reply to post by NWOnoworldorder


You be nice to mblahnikluver it's her birthday and i see nothing wrong with her post she's not having a go at you so calm down.
Are you male or female

Thanks

reply to post by mblahnikluver


oh im sorry i didnt realise you were a mod...my mistake.

who are you to tell others what they should or should not say? isnt that the mods job? even your post to the OP was scathing, the 2 posts u made in this thread to the OP and myself were having a go, are u having a bad day or is that just the way u are constantly?

the mods have warned me...i now know whats is and what isnt acceptable and ive took it on board, i dont need YOU to tell me.

good day

reply to post by mars1


im female....
2nd line

reply to post by NWOnoworldorder


I am glad you said FEMALE after reading you first post!!!

reply to post by Irish Matador


lol yea female....just having a laff..some people are just so serious and i reckeon theres more than a few brown nosers! oh well

reply to post by NWOnoworldorder


Did you read the title

MEN: Official Lady Advice Given Here.,

I'm not saying women should not post after all it's a ridiculous thread anyway just funny.
You don't need to be a mod to give good advice.

Thanks

reply to post by mars1


lol u ask me if i read the post, then say "not that women shouldnt post?" lol why mention the thread title then?
look i was just having a laff, i wasnt fully aware of the t&c's i have had a warning..the end.

reply to post by NWOnoworldorder


Look like you said in this and another post its just fun so why so angry lets have a group hug and move on pssst please don't tell my misses about the group hug

Thanks

reply to post by mars1


yea it was fun till i was repremanded by a non mod..lol

anyway forget it im not in the mood to be arguing over other peoples egos

*hug* thanks

peace out

Originally posted by mars1
reply to post by NWOnoworldorder

 

Look like you said in this and another post its just fun so why so angry lets have a group hug and move on pssst please don't tell my misses about the group hug

Thanks

How do you grab some bum when doing an online hug?

I'll try.




Anybody feel that? I had my hands down low.

reply to post by butcherguy


There always has to be one spoil sport hanging around.

Feels good don't it silky smooth

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All, can we get back to posting on the actual topic, vs. having a go at each other?

Thanks.