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Originally posted by TaunyaD
And while I'd like to respect Pro-Lifers for their opinion, I'd feel much better if they would forgo having children of their own and instead start adopting some of the 500,000 unwanted children we have here in America.
Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander
reply to post by Monts
He is not the one who could be prosecuted for his behavior when pregnant. (Endangering the fetus with drugs or alcohol, in some places, they are trying to prosecute for this) The pregnancy has zero necessary impact on his behavior.
He is not the one who may be endangering their career, by needing to take leave to give birth, or if there are complications, to carry the child to term.
Odds are, if the relationship breaks up, the mother is the one who will have to make the greatest investment in that child in terms of time, energy, and often, in money as well, as child support is not a guarantee.
Originally posted by Hardstepah
REALLY? common sense should tell any woman not to drink alcohol or do drugs or smoke. any pregnant mom to be who smokes, drinks, does drugs or anything else to endanger the pregnancy is already unfit to be a parent. arguing that a woman could be prosecuted because of alcohol intake or drug abuse is laughable, as they should be prosecuted for endangering a man's child. if kicking bad habits is so terribly hard to do or ask to be done then you shouldn't be making stupid decisions such as having unprotected sex or taking the needed steps to not become pregnant.
Originally posted by Hardstepah
i mean arguing that a man should have HALF the say in this (i don't understand where the men getting final say argument is coming from) is the same man willing to take responsibility for his actions.
Originally posted by Hardstepah
a man should have HALF the say in this (i don't understand where the men getting final say argument is coming from)
Originally posted by Illusionsaregrander
It would be nice if this decision could be "fair" for both parties. However if we are completely honest, and if we really take into account who pays what in terms of reproduction, children are always "unfair" to the mother. By that I mean only that in terms of costs, she is always the one who pays the highest price for them in natural, or physical terms.
That is what is often forgotten by those who advocate men having an "equal" say in whether or not a child is aborted. Men do not pay the same price for keeping the child, they do not assume the same risks, they do not invest the same amount of energy, or suffer to the same degree, and so the idea that they should have an equal say in whether or not to proceed with the pregnancy is inherently "unfair."
If and when the risks and costs of pregnancy could be borne equally, then and only then should men get an equal say in whether or not to continue it.
Originally posted by riley
Of course their opinion gets taken into consideration. The issue is not whether he gets a say but whether he can have final say over a grown woman's body.
Originally posted by riley
I've already hashed this out with you but will say it one more time.
A man should NOT have the right to threaten a woman and child with poverty if she refuses to have an abortion on his say so. That is disgusting and so is your insinuation that women only refuse to abort to exploit men. Some women choose not to have abortions because they actually love and want the baby to live. Is that so hard to understand?..but you choose to believe that decision is just part of some eil plot to rule over a man's life. Disgusting.
Please do not reply to me anymore as it really feels like you are interrogating.
You have had your questions answered already and those answers are NOT GOING TO CHANGE no matter how you try to twist them to suit.
Originally posted by Hardstepah
reply to post by DaMod
Originally posted by DaMod
reply to post by ker2010
No it's not your body if you want to kill yourself, only if you want to kill an innocent baby.
Get with the times man!!
i think maybe you should take your own advice. it's 2010.
who are you to decide if a woman can have an abortion, and who makes you the judge on what murder of a fetus is?
would you object to the dr. telling you have a tapeworm and take medicine to kill it? that's killing a fully developed living organism.
here's the difference between abortion and a teenager tossing a newborn in the dumps.
THE BABY IS BORN. it is a fully developed human being, not a stage in development but an actual, fully developed human baby. a fetus at 12 weeks is not a fully developed organism. go back to westboro
one more thing. if it isn't my body to commit suicide, who's body is it if not mine?
WASHINGTON - Women who consult with pregnancy resource centers often get misleading information about the health risks associated with having an abortion, according to a report issued Monday by Democrats on the House Government Reform Committee.
Congressional aides, posing as pregnant 17-year-olds, called 25 pregnancy centers that have received some federal funding over the past five years.
Irene Vilar worries that her self-described "abortion addiction" will be misunderstood, twisted by the pro-life movement to deny women the right to choose.
Her book, "Impossible Motherhood," which will be released by Other Press on Oct. 6, chronicles her own dark choices: 15 abortions in 16 years, much of it as a married woman.
As press on the book has begun to leak out, Vilar -- a literary agent and editor --- says she has already sensed "an inkling of hatred."
Vilar has scheduled only closed-door interviews and will not do a book tour. At the urging of her husband, they have made sure all public property records do not reflect her name, so she cannot be targeted at their home.
If you have privacy rights to your womb, then why did you let a male invade said womb?
Originally posted by rusethorcain
Let's take care of the unwanted children we have here already before we think about forcing women to give birth against their will.
If this conception were a part of a mans body I don't think we would be discussing the morality of abortion, when life begins or whether or not this "life" had a soul. It would be of no more consequence than removing a mole. The rest of us would have little to say about it. Churches would balk but like church on Sunday and meat on Friday sooner or later the guys would get what they want. God or no God.
As a woman and as a human, if I don't have privacy rights to my own womb, do I have any privacy rights at all?
Originally posted by FearNoEvil
You see, men, we wouldn’t have this problem if we would just follow the instruction manual – Holy Bible.
Originally posted by riley
Originally posted by FearNoEvil
You see, men, we wouldn’t have this problem if we would just follow the instruction manual – Holy Bible.
Well if we did that all women would have no more rights than cattle so what a woman wants wouldn't matter anyway.