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originally posted by: nullafides
a reply to: Anyafaj
Cute, hooray for cute.
A rose is a rose by any other name.
Funny thing is, if these good meaning folk are saying shut the front door as an attempt not to say something else, doesn't that boil down to a thing or two?
- they really mean what they are saying with the same intention as saying what they are avoiding
- words really are just that, words, sounds...
originally posted by: SallieSunshine
That was funny. My grandma used to say "Oh, Sugar!" instead of "Oh, Sh*t" and "God Bless it" instead of "God D*mn it."
Sal
a reply to: Anyafaj
originally posted by: SilentE
originally posted by: SallieSunshine
That was funny. My grandma used to say "Oh, Sugar!" instead of "Oh, Sh*t" and "God Bless it" instead of "God D*mn it."
Sal
a reply to: Anyafaj
Sugar, that's what I use when my kids are within earshot. Lol
When I stub my toe it becomes 'SHHugar honey ice tea'.
originally posted by: SilentE
originally posted by: SallieSunshine
That was funny. My grandma used to say "Oh, Sugar!" instead of "Oh, Sh*t" and "God Bless it" instead of "God D*mn it."
Sal
a reply to: Anyafaj
Sugar, that's what I use when my kids are within earshot. Lol
When I stub my toe it becomes 'SHHugar honey ice tea'.
originally posted by: nullafides
a reply to: Anyafaj
Believe it or not, I didn't mention Christian. Not even once.
Need a hand with that hammer and the three nails in your mouth?
originally posted by: nullafides
Here's a thought experiment...
I'm mad.
I'm really mad.
I'm really pissed off.
I'm really f%^ing pissed off.
I am really mother f$%^ing pissed off.
Isn't it safe to say that the additional words used above are really a means of expressing your emotion beyond the basic statement of being mad?
Are we really getting upset with the choice of words? Is it at all possible we're getting panties wadded up over the expression of emotion?
Just as you have many tools in a toolbox, a bright and curious mind has many words at their disposal. Not all do the job as succinctly as another, but they all exist to serve a purpose.
originally posted by: Anyafaj
Fine, you didn't say Christian, but in all honesty, this was meant to be humorous, there was no need to attack the video just because other people than you use different words. All he did was point out the different words that people use. Heck, when I'm alone, I'll slip and swear. But around my daughter, I try not to, as I don't want her using those words. I'm trying to teach her a young lady doesn't need to use that language when there are other words that can be used instead. And as a parent, I'm trying to live that example and break my own bad habit.
originally posted by: nullafides
Isn't it curious that christianity is immediately assumed to be what is at stake in using "polite language" ?
I use polite language all the time. Here. Work. With people I do not know.
I am not a christian.
I also use what ever word fits what I am looking to express best.
originally posted by: nullafides
originally posted by: Anyafaj
Fine, you didn't say Christian, but in all honesty, this was meant to be humorous, there was no need to attack the video just because other people than you use different words. All he did was point out the different words that people use. Heck, when I'm alone, I'll slip and swear. But around my daughter, I try not to, as I don't want her using those words. I'm trying to teach her a young lady doesn't need to use that language when there are other words that can be used instead. And as a parent, I'm trying to live that example and break my own bad habit.
Yepp, I did not once say "christian" in my original post. But, you went there, didn't you ?
And humorous, great. But, there's a far underlying issue here. That of language, and what is "acceptable".
And why do you see it as being bad? If you mean sh&t, but say sugar, all you're doing is "sugar" coating how the word sounds. You're not changing the intent of your utterance of the word.
Why is sh&t a "bad" word, and sugar a "good" word?
originally posted by: nullafides
a reply to: Anyafaj
I'm asking one simple question...
Why is one word "good", and a different one "bad" ?
Honestly, I don't know the answer. I just don't even see a foundation to *have* to ask the question in the first place.